Title: READ THIS; any comments?
Date: Thursday, June 24, 2010

Robert Sternberg proposes a triangular theory of love. It is suggested that there are 3 components to love within a relationship.

(a) intimacy
feelings of closeness, connectedness, bondedness experienced in loving relationships

(b) passion
encompassing the drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, and sexual consummation

(c) commitment
encompassing, in the short term, the decision that one loves another, and in the long term, the commitment to maintain that love.

Empty Love - Commitment without Intimacy or passion
Friendship - Intimacy without passion or commitment
Infatuation - Passion without intimacy or commitment

Romantic Love - Intimacy and Passion, without Commitment
Companionate Love - Intimacy and Commitment, without Passion
Fatuous Love - Passion and commitment, without Intimacy

Consummate Love - Intimacy, Passion and Commitment

All I can say is, I found this somewhere on the net of someone's and it's so, erm. something new. HAHA.

Title: HOME-ALONE day#3
Date: Thursday, June 3, 2010

ah yesh. Apparently today's day number 3 being home, alone. This is way beyond any kind of sickness you would have thought of - I have never ever been so bored out of my brains for once in life, at least, that is during the JUNE HOLIDAYS. Nobody could ever understand how it felt, I never had, until now. What's queer is I'm actually ACTUALLY reading up on my subjects, but honestly, the process have been rather slow but hey, I'm trying right? My reading/scanning mechanism have been rusty, nearly beyond cure but no worries, ahmin is tuning her strings now, the skills will be hone to perfect in no time, she's sure. Anyway, something on the downside - I kinda hit the dump after monday and it kind of lasted till yesterday. Not sure what caused it, stress perhaps? But stress from where?! You people know me, my stress level is pretty low, (high tolerance level), besides, if there is, I would have known but I'm not! (ohmy) honestly considering checking it out with the school counsellor. haha! ahmin's gone nuts! whoops! I didn't want to bother anybody I knew about hitting the slumps but yy got it, undeniably, I crashed kind of hard on him but we got through. That's how he is to me, my crash absorber. shyt, how did this post ended up so long? Well, one thing's for sure - this week's mine. ALL of it - for myself to stuck at home, lazed around, curl up in my queen sized bed, reading up on stuffs here and there, use the comp, catch up on some drama (Personal Taste) and well, of course family and friends. Next week's holiday classes but I'm going to pack it in with enjoyment - filled with the girls. (who's free to meet me?)

Oh, you know. Don't know why but I feel like saying this now: I sincerely hope that we can remain as close as we were when we were younger, or perhaps, closer. The thing is, so what if time may pull us apart or reality shifts things a little? The changes do settles in within us unknowingly but honestly, deep down, those treasured moments, you just got to admit, those so perfect little moments, minutes that pasted when we'd get worried and cry for the other will never be gone. Instead, precisely because as we grow older, as the world gets especially more complicated and superficial, it is these moments that gets more prominent in our hearts and becomes a little piece of heaven for solace in our hearts when we reminisce the times. It is the trust we hold for the other in our hearts, we do not need much talking and you know it, the silence between us is what I call peace, no talking is needed, there wouldn't be any awkwardness, and you know it, it's comfortable just to enjoy both party's company. you will know what I mean even if it does not makes any sense to you now. This is dedicated to my girlfriends out there, bfriends, boyfriend, sister, closefriends, you know I am referring to you.


& mr.wang(:
blading, biology & arts
11 september 1991
student @ yj


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